Stop Comparing

How to stop comparing with others. Why every human being compare yourself with others. Reason is because it gives some value, meaning and purpose, you compare with friends , siblings, people around you, with co workers. We give numbers to others and you. This is value which scares you. We sometimes compare on the fear that you may be labeled different. Or veered. We try to compare people on studies , in business , deep fearing of lack of something than others.  Sense of humor,  skills others have , money, knowledge , beauty etc,…  no human being is perfect , you have to understand it. deep on your mind know about you. You make you a better human being. Human beings are too complex to compare. And meek organisms. Each one has a different life history, different genetic , different personality , different family that we grew up, different resources, different environment, different parts of world, different countries, different government all these things shaped us. We allocate our time and energy, some people spend all the time and energy in carrier but may neglect family , some people spend time in family not in carrier, where you put your attention it will be good.  Even if you become best you will compare. Comparing looses our spark. You will not be able to enjoy your status. Instead of competitor be a creator. You want to create in your life . give value to you. The average person does not have satisfied life. Try to be normal. See the things in a matured way. Make life interesting and joyful.  Make yourself unique .  

Sometimes we try to be fake uniqueness, real uniqueness is recognizing what you are .change in a good personality. You don’t need to act. However you behave you fully relax. Learn to be in a ordinary way.

Don’t be too busy in loving yourself. care about. you as an individual set your focus totally on yourself , work on your carrier, work on your personality development, work on proving yourself. Be independent of good or the bad. compare myself to myself and look down on no one. my goal is to be better then the person I was yesterday. Its all about equilibrium . Reality is made up from your mind. Dont go all or nothing thinking here . Choose to get the good parts from society and start deleting the bad . Then you will have a better improved reality. It is the mind that has given us all that we see which is artificial and abstract. Yes, the esthetics have played a role in the perpetuation of the human species. However, it is the mind of the people past that have given the opportunity for the perpetuation of the species. Anytime we achieved some peculiar success, rather than to enjoy it, most of the time  we are  worried about losing the position we are in. And what is even worse, we sometimes tell ourself that if we achieve something even higher, then we will actually be happy... And  we keep been comparing to others all the time in order to make our self feel worthy. That's basically a result of the environment and worldviews. If we think some others has a great things add them to your vision and work on it. Bless that person for having that. If you have it be happy of what you have. Don’t criticise others or yourself. We have many resources. Don’t think that we have limited resources on planet earth. We have  Ability to develop hummer , develop confidence,  develop good attitude. Don’t close your mind open your mind to improve yourself.